Sunday, February 7, 2016
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Lets Talk Sex
Lets Talk Sex, God's Way
If you are going to talk about sex, make sure you know what you are talking about. In other words if you don't enjoy sex as much as the next person you should make sure you don't commit yourself to that relationship. You obviously know the demands placed on you by the other person before a marital ceremony occurs. If it is too much for you, then, the time to solve the problem is before the "so desired" ring goes on your finger. If you consent to the process before the ring, why would you expect it to change when the other party now feels they have the absolute right to desire it when the need arises? When you go shopping you're asked by the vendor to handle produce with care…after you take it home what you do with it is up to you. It is the same thing with the ring, that so many women and men desire…it comes with a cost. Most women complain that sex occurs too often after the ring and most men complain it's not enough after the ring. One needs to reminisce on the past few months or years of the relationship. How often did it occur prior to the nuptials? Why do you think that habit would change after the complete assurance in the other party's mind that they are secure in that relationship? If your relationship was based on an almost ritualistic pattern of having intercourse 3-5 times daily, then naturally one would expect that the same should occur after the ceremony. In most cases that does not occur and is the catalyst of numerous problems in the relationship. 1 Corinthians 7 1Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
If you are going to talk about sex, make sure you know what you are talking about. In other words if you don't enjoy sex as much as the next person you should make sure you don't commit yourself to that relationship. You obviously know the demands placed on you by the other person before a marital ceremony occurs. If it is too much for you, then, the time to solve the problem is before the "so desired" ring goes on your finger. If you consent to the process before the ring, why would you expect it to change when the other party now feels they have the absolute right to desire it when the need arises? When you go shopping you're asked by the vendor to handle produce with care…after you take it home what you do with it is up to you. It is the same thing with the ring, that so many women and men desire…it comes with a cost. Most women complain that sex occurs too often after the ring and most men complain it's not enough after the ring. One needs to reminisce on the past few months or years of the relationship. How often did it occur prior to the nuptials? Why do you think that habit would change after the complete assurance in the other party's mind that they are secure in that relationship? If your relationship was based on an almost ritualistic pattern of having intercourse 3-5 times daily, then naturally one would expect that the same should occur after the ceremony. In most cases that does not occur and is the catalyst of numerous problems in the relationship. 1 Corinthians 7 1Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
You've Got The Power
YOU’VE GOT THE POWER
We exchange our legal right to have power over all forces, over principalities on this earth and gave in to demonic denomination. When eve stood in the garden and submitted her will to the temptation of satan, she lost her right to dominate the sin nature. Genesis 1:26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. Genesis 1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. Her power was in her ability to command and that was where she was defeated when she submitted to the voice of sin. Defeat destruction and agony was immediately released in her life by her subjection to the voice of the wicked one. When children arrive on this earth to a family, they come with so much domination that words become unnecessary to display their control. They have no words in their vocabulary, the vocal cord is not properly developed for words; yet, without that ability, their every command is instantly met. The power that they arrive with is displayed through their every cry, and responses are immediately attended to: by the most intellectual of mankind. Without words they are fed, at the appropriate time, diapers are changed when demanded and affection and attention received with out one having to jump through a hoop. The power and authority displayed through a wordless society should well serve as a lesson to us, but does it? When one gets to an age of accountability and gives in to the voices of others you really have to wonder what caused that soul to lose his passion for the power that gave him the ability to overcome the obstacles of infancy. The power within that encouraged him to walk and to speak. The power within that would demand a certain toy, clothing, appliances, shoes, or even a parent time. When does one lose the ability to walk in that power that would change his life in a negative sense, and that, sometimes last for as long as for eternity. One loses that power and begins to walk in bondage when they give in to the sin nature. You are not overcome by a sin when you say no to that sin. You are dominated by the sin when u say, yes to it. One does not become a drug addict, a prostitute, an alcoholic or an homosexual by saying no. The minute you say yes to that sin it takes control of your life and refuses to let go. How do you get the power in your life once again to say no to this sin nature and get your life back. The way to get your power back is in the name of Jesus. Some say his name once, others say it ten times, but if you have to call him one hundred or one thousand times, and mean business with him. There is one guarantee that you can be sure of; and that is his name is the only name that will give you your power back. With his name on your lips no sin is hard to overcome or conqueror. John 1:12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Matthew 9:8 But when the multitudes saw it, they marvelled, and glorified God, which had given such power unto men. Mark 12:24 And Jesus answering said unto them, Do ye not therefore err, because ye know not the scriptures, neither the power of God? Luke 4:36 And they were all amazed, and spake among themselves, saying, What a word is this! for with authority and power he commandeth the unclean spirits, and they come out. Luke 4:32 And they were astonished at his doctrine: for his word was with power. Luke 10:19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. John 17:2 As thou hast given him power over all flesh, that he should give eternal life to as many as thou hast given him. Micah 3:8 But truly I am full of power by the spirit of the LORD, and of judgment, and of might, to declare unto Jacob his transgression, and to Israel his sin.
We exchange our legal right to have power over all forces, over principalities on this earth and gave in to demonic denomination. When eve stood in the garden and submitted her will to the temptation of satan, she lost her right to dominate the sin nature. Genesis 1:26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. Genesis 1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. Her power was in her ability to command and that was where she was defeated when she submitted to the voice of sin. Defeat destruction and agony was immediately released in her life by her subjection to the voice of the wicked one. When children arrive on this earth to a family, they come with so much domination that words become unnecessary to display their control. They have no words in their vocabulary, the vocal cord is not properly developed for words; yet, without that ability, their every command is instantly met. The power that they arrive with is displayed through their every cry, and responses are immediately attended to: by the most intellectual of mankind. Without words they are fed, at the appropriate time, diapers are changed when demanded and affection and attention received with out one having to jump through a hoop. The power and authority displayed through a wordless society should well serve as a lesson to us, but does it? When one gets to an age of accountability and gives in to the voices of others you really have to wonder what caused that soul to lose his passion for the power that gave him the ability to overcome the obstacles of infancy. The power within that encouraged him to walk and to speak. The power within that would demand a certain toy, clothing, appliances, shoes, or even a parent time. When does one lose the ability to walk in that power that would change his life in a negative sense, and that, sometimes last for as long as for eternity. One loses that power and begins to walk in bondage when they give in to the sin nature. You are not overcome by a sin when you say no to that sin. You are dominated by the sin when u say, yes to it. One does not become a drug addict, a prostitute, an alcoholic or an homosexual by saying no. The minute you say yes to that sin it takes control of your life and refuses to let go. How do you get the power in your life once again to say no to this sin nature and get your life back. The way to get your power back is in the name of Jesus. Some say his name once, others say it ten times, but if you have to call him one hundred or one thousand times, and mean business with him. There is one guarantee that you can be sure of; and that is his name is the only name that will give you your power back. With his name on your lips no sin is hard to overcome or conqueror. John 1:12 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Matthew 9:8 But when the multitudes saw it, they marvelled, and glorified God, which had given such power unto men. Mark 12:24 And Jesus answering said unto them, Do ye not therefore err, because ye know not the scriptures, neither the power of God? Luke 4:36 And they were all amazed, and spake among themselves, saying, What a word is this! for with authority and power he commandeth the unclean spirits, and they come out. Luke 4:32 And they were astonished at his doctrine: for his word was with power. Luke 10:19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. John 17:2 As thou hast given him power over all flesh, that he should give eternal life to as many as thou hast given him. Micah 3:8 But truly I am full of power by the spirit of the LORD, and of judgment, and of might, to declare unto Jacob his transgression, and to Israel his sin.
Holy Union
Not even the pastors understand the truth of God, because they spend too much time trying to please the people instead of trying to please the king of kings and Lord of Lords Marriage: a supernatural bond between a man and a woman that occurs through sexual intercourse. It is a bond between two people that goes beyond anything the eyes could see or the tongue could tell. If the world truly understood the true concept or sacredness of marriage, we would live in a possible utopia or realm of ecstasy that no man could ever understand. Many profess to know the word of God, but do they? Genesis 2:24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. This ure shows that marriage is in the flesh and not in the ring and the fancy dresses and all the other beautiful trimmings of the ceremony. The celebration of a union is quite beautiful but so unimportant to God. If you decide to take a wife without a lavish celebration; your marriage will actually count for something before God and man. Genesis 2:25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. Now, if you decide you want to get married and had an actual celebration with the finest wines, the best clothing and the most expensive venue, but you actually refuse to have sex with your mate, you can and might as well consider what you have just done as a waste of time. When does a woman become your wife or a man becomes your husband? Genesis 16:2-3 2And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai. 3And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife. Genesis 24:67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death. 21And Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in unto her. 22And Laban gathered together all the men of the place, and made a feast. 23And it came to pass in the evening, that he took Leah his daughter, and brought her to him; and he went in unto her. 24And Laban gave unto his daughter Leah Zilpah his maid for an handmaid. 25And it came to pass, that in the morning, behold, it was Leah: and he said to Laban, What is this thou hast done unto me? did not I serve with thee for Rachel? wherefore then hast thou beguiled me? 26And Laban said, It must not be so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. If we respected the will of God the way he ordained it, we would have a different view towards sex. You would realize the first person you actually had intercourse with was actually your wife. A whole lot of zippers would stay up and even more legs would stay closed.
Quest For God
Quest For God
To want god is to need him in our lives despite the natural needs for our daily living. To want god is a need – a feeling – or an emotion that goes beyond the NATURAL needs Many people need God in their lives but do not necessarily want Him. He becomes a heavy load – a burden to bear by many, who, once believed and called up on his name. His name becomes a by-word and our service to Him – an overwhelming entanglement that one needs to escape from after a few months or years of surrender. As long as the needs are met and we live in comfort, our hearts overflow with joy – one finds it easy to sing God’s praise. To want God is a desire that captivates the mind, envelopes the heart and lets one know that despite the many needs that have been met and the ones that seem to be forgotten – God is and always will be the most important person in your life. To want God is to have a heart-felt commitment to Him: inspite of, the fact that he has not given you the million dollar home, the fine – expensive cars, the woman or man you have been consulting him over or the healing that has not yet occurred and the fame and honor you believe you deserve. The poor relationship between God and man stems from the fact that men NEED God more than they WANT him and God WANTS men more than he NEEDS them. David, in Psalm27:4 said it best, One thing have I desired of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to enquire in his temple. Hence, the reason, for our lack of development: emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially. Wanting God goes beyond every physical need and every emotional desire. You didn’t get the sports car, so what, is that any reason to stop loving the God you say you want? Your protection healing and deliverance is in GodPsalm27 5For in the time of trouble he shall hide me in his pavilion: in the secret of his tabernacle shall he hide me; he shall set me up upon a rock.6And now shall mine head be lifted up above mine enemies round about me: therefore will I offer in his tabernacle sacrifices of joy; I will sing, yea, I will sing praises unto the LORD. What we don’t realize is that his amazing love often gives you what you want and need. This is my prayer, God I love you even thou, I love you despite the fact, God, I love you period. Jesus I want you more than my wants and needs, I need you Lord more than having my needs met. Pray this and see the miracles that will begin to happen in your life.
To want god is to need him in our lives despite the natural needs for our daily living. To want god is a need – a feeling – or an emotion that goes beyond the NATURAL needs Many people need God in their lives but do not necessarily want Him. He becomes a heavy load – a burden to bear by many, who, once believed and called up on his name. His name becomes a by-word and our service to Him – an overwhelming entanglement that one needs to escape from after a few months or years of surrender. As long as the needs are met and we live in comfort, our hearts overflow with joy – one finds it easy to sing God’s praise. To want God is a desire that captivates the mind, envelopes the heart and lets one know that despite the many needs that have been met and the ones that seem to be forgotten – God is and always will be the most important person in your life. To want God is to have a heart-felt commitment to Him: inspite of, the fact that he has not given you the million dollar home, the fine – expensive cars, the woman or man you have been consulting him over or the healing that has not yet occurred and the fame and honor you believe you deserve. The poor relationship between God and man stems from the fact that men NEED God more than they WANT him and God WANTS men more than he NEEDS them. David, in Psalm27:4 said it best, One thing have I desired of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to enquire in his temple. Hence, the reason, for our lack of development: emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially. Wanting God goes beyond every physical need and every emotional desire. You didn’t get the sports car, so what, is that any reason to stop loving the God you say you want? Your protection healing and deliverance is in GodPsalm27 5For in the time of trouble he shall hide me in his pavilion: in the secret of his tabernacle shall he hide me; he shall set me up upon a rock.6And now shall mine head be lifted up above mine enemies round about me: therefore will I offer in his tabernacle sacrifices of joy; I will sing, yea, I will sing praises unto the LORD. What we don’t realize is that his amazing love often gives you what you want and need. This is my prayer, God I love you even thou, I love you despite the fact, God, I love you period. Jesus I want you more than my wants and needs, I need you Lord more than having my needs met. Pray this and see the miracles that will begin to happen in your life.
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