Lets Talk Sex

Lets Talk Sex, God's Way


If you are going to talk about sex, make sure you know what you are talking about. In other words if you don't enjoy sex as much as the next person you should make sure you don't commit yourself to that relationship. You obviously know the demands placed on you by the other person before a marital ceremony occurs. If it is too much for you, then, the time to solve the problem is before the "so desired" ring goes on your finger. If you consent to the process before the ring, why would you expect it to change when the other party now feels they have the absolute right to desire it when the need arises? When you go shopping you're asked by the vendor to handle produce with care…after you take it home what you do with it is up to you. It is the same thing with the ring, that so many women and men desire…it comes with a cost. Most women complain that sex occurs too often after the ring and most men complain it's not enough after the ring. One needs to reminisce on the past few months or years of the relationship. How often did it occur prior to the nuptials? Why do you think that habit would change after the complete assurance in the other party's mind that they are secure in that relationship? If your relationship was based on an almost ritualistic pattern of having intercourse 3-5 times daily, then naturally one would expect that the same should occur after the ceremony. In most cases that does not occur and is the catalyst of numerous problems in the relationship. 1 Corinthians 7 1Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.